S.e.x, just like a wedding cake, has many layers and flavours to it. One layer is foreplay, which can best be described as the party starter to the penetrative aspect of s.e.x.
Every layer plays an important part in the overall make-up of the experience.
A key component of foreplay that plays a critical role in the overall s.e.x experience is oral s.e.x, also known as a bl0w j0b.
A bl0w j0b is the act of stimulating a man’s pen!s with the mouth for s.e.xual pleasure.
According to s.e.xologists, giving someone a bl0w j0b can be the perfect foreplay as it often triggers the best erect!ons.
Like any dining experience, one needs the right table manners.
According to Healthline and Cosmopolitan magazines, these are the s.e.xual etiquettes of giving the best bl0w j0b:
1. Don’t sink your teeth in it
The fundamental rule to giving the perfect bl0w j0b is not to bite the 4-5. This can be very painful.
2. Don’t rush
Start off slow with light pressure. Then slowly increase your pace. If they seem to be getting close to climax, stick with what you’re doing.
3. Pay attention to his reaction
Thrusting, holding your head steady, or quivering are all signs that they’re loving it and getting closer to climax.
4. Keep good eye contact
Like Black Coffee’s smash hit Your Eyes featuring Shekhinah, your eyes are everything during a bl0w j0b. Eye contact is hot, shows confidence, and ups the intimacy factor.
5. Be very handy
Use your hands to control the 4-5 and tighten the nuts, if you catch my drift.
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