Well-known South African star, former Rhythm City actress Pam Andrews got candid about the things she did when seeking validation from others.
Taking to her social media timeline recently, Pam said she would pull all the stops to make sure she was the centre of attention.
“Wherever I went I wanted everyone to look at me, and I made sure everyone was looking at me. I was loud, I was very obnoxious. I was wearing these crazy outfits, not this muffin thing that’s going on here, thank you to my child,” she said.
“I was wearing very short skirts. I looked like slut. Everywhere I went, I made it a mission that I would get attention even if I went to the shop to buy food. So stupid.”
Pam said she was working through it with therapy.
“At the time that made me happy, and today we are working on things with therapy. That was probably a lot of childhood stuff I hadn’t dealt with. I was looking for validation from other people.”
She added that in her 20s she was always drunk. She would go to work and after work, she would go clubbing from Monday to Saturday.
“I made so many foolish mistakes and for some reason, I was a very rude person. I was on my own from the age of 17 when I won the singing competition. I was a teenager, had money, was famous, and lived in a different city from my parents. I was basically living my best life at that point.”
She added that she lived the life of a rock star and would sometimes arrive on set late and complain about everything.
“I remember all the bosses would always have meetings with me and call me in. They never fired me, which was so weird. I must have had a guardian angel looking after me.”
“It’s good to acknowledge and grow where you see where you have made mistakes. And obviously, I know where I made my mistakes. I am looking forward to getting older. I am looking forward to it, and I am so excited to get to know this different phase of my life.”
-TL
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