DJ Zinhle was the first guest to be interviewed by Enhle Maphulo on her new vodcast. The vodcast, which is modeled on Jada Pinkett-Smith’s Red Table Talk, saw the two women having an honest conversation about how they navigated the world in the midst of the social media storm around their partners’ infidelities and why they decided to stay in the relationships.
Well, fast forward to the subject matter. DJ Zinhle who looked annoyed and almost bored shared what AKA’s put her through during his infidelity and how she had coped through it all.
The DJ said though the scandal was painful, she did not have an issue with how public it went. Below is how she went through her story and shared her heartache. “I expected people to make fun of the situation because I had considered every worst-case scenario,” said Zinhle.
Zinhle said though it was “tough” seeing AKA with Bonang Matheba after their break-up, she had to remove herself from the situation and move on with her life for the sake of her “sanity”. As a result, she did not think much of their break-up
I was in a relationship when they broke up. I was fine. It happened so many times so I just got used to the cycle of the break-up; so I just removed myself completely from that whole thing for my sanity.”
Zinhle said what also helped her heal was the realisation that her partner had taken nothing from her. He just wanted to be with someone else and that’s what he did.
“The father of my child being with me and loving me in that way was a separate thing from how he was with someone else. The lines are never crossed. It’s not like he took what was mine and gave it to her. That’s not how I looked at it; I felt like he wanted to be in a different place in a different way with someone else and that’s it.”
“I don’t rob myself of things that I want and can acquire. The decision to be with the father of my child has nothing to do with my child. It sounds pompous when I say I acquire the things I want, and I don’t rob myself of things that I will question later.
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