This is one interesting discussion. Why do women feel the need to fake an orgasm and is it ever that serious? Well, there are a number of reasons why women fake 0rgasms and some can be justified to some extent.
However, guys just don’t get it and actually get so offended when you fake an 0rgasm. But a number of researches have shown that women do this primarily because of their caring instinct.
S.e.x is all fun and games until you have to prove you are enjoying it by faking an 0rgasm. And if a guy finds out that you have been faking it, they feel cheated. But the truth is 99% of the reason women do it is because they want to make men happy.
Here are some reasons why women fake 0rgasms:
1. They are protecting their partner’s ego
Most men get their ego from performing in bed and telling them that they don’t make you cl!max can be damaging to their fragile egos. And how selfless of a woman to undermine her satisfaction just to please her partner.
2. This can be difficult to talk about
Most women find it hard to talk about their performance in bed. And sometimes the partners might not be so approachable in matters of s.e.x. Society has really undermined the woman’s s.e.xual needs and has made it look like s.e.x is purely for the man’s satisfaction and it’s only the man who can demand or ask for their pleasures to be met.
3. Sometimes we are just not into it
We have all had those moments where our partner just wants to have s.e.x but we are really not into it but we end up giving in anyway. And because so much of how we enjoy s.e.x is controlled by our minds we just have to fake it until he is done. We wouldn’t want to make our partner feel like we don’t enjoy the lovemaking session.
4. We place more value on the man’s satisfaction
Due to various myths and constraints the society has set, s.e.x is majorly seen as a way to pleasure the man solely. So, for the women they became objectified and they focus more on pleasuring the man more than them receiving pleasure. And because our minds are very important in making us 0rgasm, we just tend to fake the 0rgasm in order to please the man.
5. We assume we are being judged
It’s so hard for a woman to be able to say what we want in bed. The worst thing is that men think we all get aroused by the same things but the truth is, this varies from woman to woman. We all have different stimulants.
Also, imagine telling our man that how they have been touching or kissing you doesn’t arouse us and asking them to do it differently. Well, some men will be open to the idea while others will feel degraded. Handle it with care and wisdom.
6. The man’s expectation
Due to influences such as p0rn0graphy, we almost have to fake an 0rgasm. Our partners sometimes expect us to perform in bed just like a p0rn star and think reaching an 0rgasm is as simple as they see in p0rn. This couldn’t be further from the truth.
If your guy likes watching p0rn more often than not, you are forced to fake an 0rgasm because unless you have one they might not feel satisfied.
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