There are times when we mull over the status of our relationship. We analyse if all is well with our partner and question whether our relationship is healing us or hurting us. To know whether your love life’s on the right track or not, make sure these 5 signs are there.
These signs will let you know whether your relationship is healing you or hurting you.
1. His/her presence eases you
No matter how hard life is for you, there is a person with whom you feel at ease. They do not even have to talk but the mere presence relaxes you. If this is happening in your relationship and you can let go of all inhibitions with him/her, then it is a clear sign that you are healing.
2. There are some loving challenges
In a healing relationship, your partner is patient with you. If he/she knows that you are struggling with stress or emotional imbalance, you won’t be asked to be happy. Instead, your love will encourage you to feel those emotions, help you get your plans together. Your partner will encourage you and make you feel like you have wings that were tied by you, yourself. He/She will make plans to ease you.
3. Your boundaries will be encouraged
Building a boundary does not mean keeping people out of your life. It is to keep you safe. If you state your needs to your partner and they are well respected then you are in a healing relationship for sure. Their reaction should be calming and encouraging because that is what a healthy relationship is all about.
4. You grow in your relationship
If you are not growing in your relationship then you should not be in it. Growth is very important in life. A healing relationship will help you grow as a person. If you have found a partner who encourages your continuous growth, then don’t let go of this person. There will be points in life when you want to shed your past image and negative habits and if he/she is supporting that then this is a healthy and a healing relationship.
5. Constant support
reEncouraging each other to shine in your respective fields, supporting the other in life, it is that perfect guide to happiness in a relationship. Such a relationship will always heal you and never hurt you.
Source: Fakazanews
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