Moshe Ndiki opens up on his failed marriage: ‘I cheated because I’d already forgiven cheating 7 times’
Moshe Ndiki opens up on his failed marriage: ‘I cheated because I’d already forgiven cheating 7 times’! Popular media personality and actor Moshe Ndiki has candidly spoken about the infidelity he endured during his marriage to reality TV star Phelo Bala. The couple, who were married for two years, went through a tumultuous relationship before officially separating in 2020.
Now, years later, Moshe has revealed that he was cheated on multiple times and that he ultimately retaliated before their marriage ended.
A Painful Marriage and Multiple Betrayals
During a recent interview on Engineer Your Life, Moshe opened up about what he believes went wrong in his marriage and how he coped with the heartbreak of betrayal.
“We had the same vision. I was ready. I knew myself, and I think he was still just battling his own demons. I wouldn’t say he was a bad person, he was just battling his own demons. I tried my best to facilitate his healing. I enabled a lot of actions in my marriage.”
Despite his efforts to support and heal the relationship, Moshe admitted that he eventually lost himself in the process.
One of the most shocking revelations from the interview was that Moshe forgave infidelity seven times before he eventually cheated as well.
“Towards the end, I cheated because I had already forgiven cheating seven times. I will never forget. I retaliated by cheating as well, instead of just leaving. I enabled.”
This confession has sparked a heated debate among fans, with many applauding Moshe for his honesty and emotional maturity in reflecting on his past mistakes.
Moving Forward: A Journey of Self-Discovery
Following his divorce, Moshe moved on and found love again with a man named Mzie. However, their relationship eventually ended, and Moshe has now chosen to step back from dating to focus on himself.
“I want to do things differently in the future, but for now, I’m taking a break to understand myself more and what I want in a relationship.”
For Moshe, the priority now is self-love, family, and fatherhood.
Embracing Fatherhood and Family Bonds
Beyond his public persona, Moshe is also a devoted father. He has been embracing fatherhood and has expressed his deep commitment to giving his children the love and attention he never experienced growing up.
“My promise to my children is to be there for them, play with them, cry with them, support them, and anything I never got to experience with my dad. They will experience it with me, and I with them.”
Moshe has two sons, and he frequently shares heartwarming moments with them on social media. His dedication to being present in their lives has resonated with many of his followers, who appreciate his openness about parenting, love, and healing.
Lessons Learned and A New Chapter
Moshe Ndiki’s candid revelations serve as a powerful reminder about the importance of self-worth in relationships. He has learned valuable lessons from his past experiences and is now prioritizing self-growth and personal happiness over toxic patterns.
His honesty about infidelity, emotional struggles, and healing is refreshing in an era where many celebrities often choose to remain silent about their personal failures.
As he takes time to reflect and rebuild, Moshe is embracing a new chapter in his life—one centered on family, self-love, and emotional well-being. His story serves as a lesson to many that forgiveness has limits and that sometimes, the best decision is to walk away from a situation that no longer serves you.
For now, Moshe is choosing peace over chaos, and his journey of self-discovery and healing is one that many can relate to.
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