Lerato Sengadi: The grief is so real, I’m hurting

Lerato Sengadi: The grief is so real, I’m hurting. The feud between his customary wife Lerato Sengadi and his family dominated the headlines in the days that followed his passing, giving neither party the chance to grieve properly.
It has been just over a month since the passing of iconic Motswako rapper HHP, real Jabulani Tsambo and the loss has not sunk in just yet for his loved ones.
With the bitter feud seemingly dying down in the past few weeks, Sengadi has shared how she is coping with the loss of her husband.
“It’s been a month. Feels like an eternity. Feels like yesterday. Feels so surreal. But the grief is so real. I know the strength God has bestowed upon me is a gift from you,” Lerato captioned a picture of herself with HHP. She posted a picture on her Instagram with a caption that had us troubled, she is really having a difficult time with the passing of her husband. Check the picture and the caption below…
It’s been a month. Feels like an eternity. Feels like yesterday. Feels so surreal. But the grief is so real. I know the strength God has bestowed upon me is a gift from u ❤️ #Motho #DloziLam #Psalm35.
She also shared another cute picture which had an interesting caption of her and HHP: Today was bigger than me! Motho always saw greatness in me that I sometimes didn’t see in myself. He always said I was born to be great and felt almost undeserving of being loved by such greatness… but the feeling was mutual! He has catapulted me to the level of greatness that only a union blessed by the most high could.
This victory is not just mine. I am not the first that this has happened to! Which is why I am fired up and encouraged by the spirits of all the widows who have been marginalized by patriarchal in-laws in moments of grief and stripped of their dignity and the very basic need to grieve. Our grandmothers, mothers, aunts, sisters, cousins, best friends!
To all the women who choose to ridicule me for doing what is right; I pray that this never happens to u or ur daughter or ur best friend etc but if it does u will remember me and know that u can fight for what is right.
U don’t love someone because it’s convenient and easy. No! You love them because even when loving them isn’t convenient you will STILL fight for what is right for them.
Motho didn’t marry no punk! I am brave! I am a warrior! I am a Queen. #IAmHisWife! #IWillNotCower
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