Lady Du speaks out after the passing of her father, legendary DJ Choc! South African Amapiano sensation Lady Du is currently going through one of the most emotionally devastating periods of her life following the recent passing of her father, the legendary DJ Choc. The popular singer and DJ, born Duduzile Ngwenya, took to social media to share her pain and grief just three days after her father’s death, prompting an outpouring of love and support from fans, friends, and fellow artists.
In a deeply emotional and vulnerable Instagram post, Lady Du wrote:
“Day 3 of the toughest days of my life. Baba, we were so close now. God, why would you hurt me like this? To everyone that has supported me and sent messages, I thank you . I’m a mess right now. I won’t be myself for some time, I ask you to understand and respect that. God bless you. I ask that you respect and love your families. We are living in borrowed time.”
Lady Du speaks out
An Outpouring of Support
The emotional message has since gone viral, drawing thousands of responses from the music industry, the public, and devoted fans. Many shared heartfelt condolences, words of encouragement, and tributes to DJ Choc’s legacy.
Fellow musicians and entertainers also offered their support, echoing Lady Du’s sentiments about the fragility of life and the importance of family. Her message resonated with many who have experienced similar losses, sparking conversations about grief and mental health in the entertainment industry.
A Legacy That Runs Deep
DJ Choc was not just a household name in the early South African house music scene, but also a central figure in shaping Lady Du’s music career. Known for his incredible talent, unwavering discipline, and passion for music, DJ Choc was instrumental in guiding his daughter through the highs and lows of the entertainment world.
Lady Du has often credited her father as her biggest inspiration. In numerous interviews and social media posts, she spoke fondly of how he introduced her to music, taught her the value of hard work, and supported her every step of the way—even as she carved her own path in the fast-rising Amapiano genre.
Their relationship was built on mutual respect, love, and a shared passion for music, which made his passing even more difficult for the star to come to terms with.
A Time to Reflect
In her grief, Lady Du used her platform to share a powerful reminder with her followers: life is fragile, and we must treasure our loved ones. Her words, “We are living in borrowed time,” served as both a personal reflection and a broader call for empathy, understanding, and unity in a world that often moves too fast to appreciate the people closest to us.
Fans and followers took this message to heart, with many sharing their own stories of loss and reaffirming their commitment to spend more quality time with family. Lady Du’s candid openness during this difficult time has touched the hearts of many, proving once again that grief, though deeply personal, can connect us all in a shared human experience.
Taking Time to Heal
While she has not announced any upcoming performances or music releases, Lady Du has asked for privacy and patience as she mourns. She made it clear that she may not be herself for some time, and asked her supporters to understand and respect her need for space during this period of healing.
Her courage in sharing her emotions publicly is a testament to her authenticity—something that fans have always admired about her.
As South Africa remembers the legacy of DJ Choc, the nation also stands beside Lady Du in solidarity, offering love, prayers, and comfort in this moment of profound loss.