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Basetsana Kumalo opens up about the pain of miscarriage

TV mogul and businesswoman Basetsana Kumalo has detailed the painful journey of suffering a miscarriage under public scrutiny. While doing media runs for her new book Bassie: My Journey of Hope, Basetsana shared a video clip from a recent interview on CliffCentral on Instagram, where she spoke about her struggle to start a family while in the public eye.

Basetsana and Romeo Kumalo

 

“It was just beyond painful to battle your fertility journey in public, wherein one day you’ll be written about that you’re having a baby and the next day they say she’s lost the baby. I mean the 20 weeks [in which] I lost the twins in 2007.” Basetsana added that she felt betrayed by her own body and blamed herself for not taking it easy during her pregnancy.

“It also makes you doubt yourself … also I had to make sure I don’t lose hope and faith that I will be a mother of many. It’s something that’s always been in my consciousness and I knew I was going to be a mother. Even when it didn’t look possible, I refused to give up, I refused to quit, I refused to believe that it was not for me and thank God, I’ve got three beautiful children today who are just remarkable.

Basetsana Kumalo

Basetsana said she and hubby Romeo had done a good job of keeping their lives very private to raise their children in the most normal way possible. Two days before releasing her book, Bassie shared an Instagram post detailing the inspiration behind it.

Basetsana Kumalo

“Why now? I was always going to write my memoir, it was just a matter of when? But now, 25 years of my walk with the Lord, of freedom, of being a public figure, and of being in business. I have been through a lot, faced ups and downs, and I said: ‘Maybe somebody, someday, would be able to look at my journey of hope, and it would reignite in them the hope that they can also overcome whatever it is they are facing’.

In other news – It was a rocky start for Ntukeleng and Vuyisile #OurPerfectWedding

Ntukeleng Angel Selepe (28) and Vuyisile Mngwevu (32) met through a mutual friend in 2014. Vuyisile says he had just lost his mother so he was feeling quite lost. His friend, Pretty Kayisa joked at the time he should find another woman to fill the void and Ntukeleng came to her mind.

OurPerfectWedding

Vuyisile asked me to find him someone to date in 2014,” says Pretty. “Someone with a similar character to his so I thought of Angel because they’re both shy, they love God, and they are respectful. Read more

Source: Timeslive